Monday, 10 September 2012

Is Happiness a Mystery?

It’s an attempt to put something on what HAPPINESS mean to me .Word happy has a letter ‘Y’ in it hence people can be happy but happiness has ‘I ‘in it which means it starts with me or myself , I can either feel it or sense it, it’s a state of self-containment and self-satisfaction.
Feeling regretted is human tendency, it comes to us by nature, these are the signs that make you a human being who really cares for others and it tells us that you are indeed open to learn from your mistakes but one should continuously look towards learning from your past successes too which would take you towards excellence and making you more capable of achieving successes with perfection.
Being true to yourself is one more factor that tests your character and patience ,one should keep evaluating himself to judge your progress because that’s the key for the happiness , happiness cannot be defined by the surrounding atmosphere, it’s a process of self-judgement which evolves from within, you can only feel it, you can always try to share it but it depends upon the person who is at receiving end, you cannot simply make him happy only by sharing your happiness but it’s a process which enables him to feel that happiness. And yes I would say its individuals business of realising those moments for himself. Being true doesn’t mean just standing for the true or best it also means that you trust yourself and that you will rightly succeed someday despite keeping odds against you. One should keep evolving and strive for the best to deliver.
Sometimes I feel happiness as mystery as we fail to understand it or define it though we can feel it or see its happening. Defining it for someone could be tough task; we could even miss it from enjoying it, if we start consciously monitoring our responses or our feeling to certain activities which makes us happy. May be happiness is something that we can only pursue and maybe we can actually never have it.